Drifting without a compass
Studying what you never chose, chasing goals that leave you empty, living by other people's expectations.
Two books by Bela Khan
Know who you are.
Decide with clarity.
Practical, faith-centred guides that bring psychology and the Qur'an & Sunnah together — to help you discover your values and make every decision the way Allah teaches.
Why these books
“Let's not begin the journey of self-discovery on our deathbeds.”
— Bela Khan, Know Your Values, Know Yourself
Stuck at every crossroads
Half-hearted choices, endless second-guessing, asking everyone — and still not knowing which way to go.
A clear, faith-rooted way forward
Know your values, then decide with 'aql, shura, istikharah and tawakkul — the way Allah teaches.
Book one · Second edition
Know Your Values, Know Yourself
Discover your values to value yourself
Life is like a desert, and your values are your compass. Through the stories of Bilal, Abu Bakr, 'Umar and Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with them), this practical guide helps you uncover what truly drives you — why you do what you do, and what you would never trade for anything in the world.
- 1The Journey of Self-Discovery
- 2Where Do Values Come From?
- 3Values as a Guiding Factor
- 4The Cost of Not Knowing Your Values
- 5Values, Goals, and Purpose
- 6Connecting the Dots
You'll walk away with
- Your five core values — written, owned and committed to
- A value statement for every role you play: spouse, parent, professional, friend, yourself
- Reflective "Ask Yourself" exercises designed for the quiet after Fajr
$9.00PDF · 103 pages · instant download
Book two
Decision Making: The Islamic Way
You can change your life in a single mental move — a decision.
Psychology defines decision-making as choosing between alternatives. In Islam, it is a process that leads to action. Drawing on the Qur'an, the Sunnah and her own life, Bela shows you how to make firm, confident decisions — from choosing a career or a spouse to the schooling of your children.
$9.00PDF · 91 pages · instant download
The four-step framework
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عقل
Step 1
'Aql — Think it through
Weigh your options, list the outcomes you want and the ones you fear, then prioritise and conclude.
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شورى
Step 2
Shura — Seek counsel
Consult the right people: knowledgeable, God-fearing, and truly present — just as the Prophet ﷺ did.
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استخارة
Step 3
Istikharah — Ask Allah
The procedure, the du'a, how to read the result, dreams, and the questions everyone asks.
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توكل
Step 4
Tawakkul — Trust & let go
Having done your part, place your trust in Allah and move forward with a settled heart.
Questions
What format are the books in?
Both books are delivered as high-quality PDFs that you can read on your phone, tablet or computer — or print the exercise pages to write in.
How do I receive them?
Immediately after payment you'll see a download link on the order page, and the same link is emailed to you.
Who are these books for?
Anyone who wants to live more intentionally — students choosing a path, spouses and parents, professionals and leaders — and wants guidance that is grounded in both psychology and the Qur'an & Sunnah.
Should I read them in a particular order?
Start with Know Your Values, Know Yourself. Your values become the compass you'll use in every step of Decision Making: The Islamic Way.
Can I buy copies for a class, halaqa or organisation?
Yes — get in touch for group and institutional pricing.